While economic boost in most societies results in kids moving out from the parental home at an early age, recession, economic and financial crisis increases the number of multi generation families because adult children faced with hardships move back in with their parents. When young adults leave their parent’s house to start a new life on their own, they develop new habits and so do the parents left in the old home – when such families are reunited, conflicts are usually imminent, unless both parties show a lot of flexibility and understanding. Here are some tips from a family therapist in Broomfield about how to cope with the unusual situation:
- Set up the rules – having rules in the house eliminates many conflicts, so a great way to start your new life together is to sit down and decide who does what in and around the house. Financial subjects might be touchy, but essential to discuss, too;
- Respect each other’s space – mutual respect for each other’s personal space is essential for living together peacefully. To mention just one example, you should never enter your kid’s room without knocking and your kid should enter you bedroom without asking for permission either;
- Discuss the duration of the stay – discuss the options of moving out and set a deadline for the stay, too. That way, everyone involved will be able to work towards that deadline.
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